Are you an Extroverted-Introvert? How to Find Balance and Make the Most of the Best Parts.
https://vibelab.chat/the-extroverted-introvert-thriving-between-socializing-and-solitude-87612b0c8054
#introvert #Extrovert #Deepthinker #Mindfullife #FindingBalance #ExtrovertedIntrovert
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this post today & can't help but compare it to the delicate balance we all have of being More of an #introvert or #extrovert ~ All of us lean More toward being contemplative in solitude versus being outgoing w/family, friends & acquaintances. Which are YOU?
A little of Both worlds helps us to experience a well rounded life ~ Too much quiet time w/ourselves limits our view of the world around us; too much time spent in the company of others may inhibit personal soul searching we need.
BALANCE
I used to think I was #introverted.
Socializing and public exhausts me, and I eventually get #overstimulated and #anxious and just need to leave, and find some peace alone.
However I think I am actually an #extrovert and socializing exhausts me due to having to constantly fight my #tourettes related tics, which almost never stop, and I have to focus and put effort into fighting, so I don't seem like a total manic.
So I need a break after a while.
Being a psychologist on the internet can be frustrating.
3/4: Introverted extroverts etc.
!["Ambiverts"
As with "Introverted extroverts," apparently "Ambiverts" are the people who will give increasing amounts of money to internet or phone psychics because "OMG you just *get* me".
Signs an "ambivert's" "inner extrovert" are apparently
- loves being with people
- talkative when stimulated
- feeds off the hype around them
- thinks aloud
- likes to try new things
Signs of the "ambivert's" "inner introvert" appear to be
- needs a break from time to time
- happy to listen and observe
- gets discouraged easily
- weary of others' opinions [note: 75% chance they meant "wary"]
- requires advance notice to prepare
OMG I'm an ambivert, too!](https://media.infosec.exchange/infosec.exchange/media_attachments/files/113/835/500/661/424/021/original/e13eee4786c4de65.jpg "\"Ambiverts\"
As with \"Introverted extroverts,\" apparently \"Ambiverts\" are the people who will give increasing amounts of money to internet or phone psychics because \"OMG you just *get* me\".
Signs an \"ambivert's\" \"inner extrovert\" are apparently
- loves being with people
- talkative when stimulated
- feeds off the hype around them
- thinks aloud
- likes to try new things
Signs of the \"ambivert's\" \"inner introvert\" appear to be
- needs a break from time to time
- happy to listen and observe
- gets discouraged easily
- weary of others' opinions [note: 75% chance they meant \"wary\"]
- requires advance notice to prepare
OMG I'm an ambivert, too!")
This peep seems to be an arrogant egotistic dickhead, afaict.
https://orkohunter.net/blog/the-trap-of-introversion/
In the discussion, it seems like i might not be Robinson Crusoe in that opinion.
And who are you in this meme?
The #introvert or the #extrovert?
One or two excellent people would be OK as long as they don't stay long.
I was telling my wife that when I see people sharing what they are up to on social media I get a real sense of FOMO (fear of missing out).
She said that when she thinks about doing social things with friends or strangers she gets FOJI (fear of joining in). 
Apparently JOMO (joy of missing out) is the more common term, but I prefer my wife's new acronym.
What camp are you in?
If this was an #RPG or a #TTRPG, my Lv 1 Feat would be that talking is always a free action, even and especially if I'm talking shit.
NPC looks scary?
I got a cheery opener and a unironic smile
I've been debuffed?
I got a witty insult in response
I land a critical hit?
Will Smith-esque "wooooooo!"
Engaging with threats?
I draw aggro like i was born to do it
As i grow in level, I'd roll to cause some kind of effect with all that talking. I'm an #extrovert and a witty, quick thinker. #Talking is always the easy part for me
I'm useless at #parties. Social skill: high. Social motivation: low. Don't drink, don't dance, won't converse if I have to shout. Is there a bookcase please? Anybody want to play a boardgame? When is the next bus home? Are you really an #extrovert if you're not interested in extroverting?
You either die an #introvert, or you live long enough to see yourself become the #extrovert you always hated 
Reasons not to live with me: Introverts and extroverts
I’m a nerdy introvert. My silence can appear rude to extroverts.
I have bouts of talkativeness. This can be mistaken for being momentarily extraverted.
Whichever you are, I’m not always that.
A quotation from Landers, Ann:
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At every party there are two kinds of people — those who want to go home and those who don’t. The trouble is, they are usually married to each other.
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Full quote, sourcing, notes:
https://wist.info/landers-ann/69111/
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