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One thing I did NOT expect from ADHD meds: much easier to put my contact lenses in.
I guess my eyes are no longer darting about all over the place.
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for you sarah i will write to my garbage MP. although in echo of the above, she has never responded to any of my previous correspondence and in a mystery shopper exercise had the worst response rate of any mp in the liverpool city region (maria eagle).
I truly do not believe this.
I just watched a video about somebody's parrot, or some similar birb. Said birb had been plucking it's feathers and the owner said it was a hormonal issue and the vet had given it Lupron.
Lupron is a puberty blocker. Parrots have more fucking rights than trans kids
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Possible, but IIUC plucking is usually a stress issue.
Still, the fact that it's easier to get for a parrot than a kid is quite something.
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Still not got a good answer to the question of how neurotypicals have fun.
Like, it has recently come to my attention that you lot get a dopamine reward for picking up your socks off the floor and putting them away. I have now experienced this and, wow! Yeah. Very cool! Neat trick you have there.
So why spend money on leisure activities when you can just pick shit up?
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@Kincaid Honestly it feels pretty good to me.
But I guess I’ve been on starvation rations for 51 years.
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It’s really starting to hit me now. All those years I wasn’t lazy. I wasn’t deliberately obstructive. I wasn’t thoughtless. I wasn’t careless. I wasn’t a deliberate arsehole.
My neurology literally wouldn’t let me slow down, do stuff, talk quieter, not interrupt, not go from 0 to “temper tantrum” in 2 seconds, remember where I put the thing I was holding 1 second ago. Not want to end people for talking too slowly.
One pill fixes it all. One sodding pill.
51 years.
There’s more grieving to come here, I think. A lot more.
And no, everyone is NOT “a little bit ADHD”. You have no bloody idea.
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@Ghost of Hope 🏳️⚧️ Heart failure in extreme old age probably fine.
They will get weird if they think you might have cardiac issues.
Woman who believes vaccines cause autism also believes thing above her bed catches bad dreams
A woman has defended her decision not to vaccinate her children due to autism fears, and insists she sleeps ‘fine at night thank you very much’ due to the dream catcher which she hangs …NewsThump
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First few days on Elvanse and wow! This stuff is honestly astonishing.
If you’re seeing this on Bluesky it’s auto cross posted from fedi. Breaks might be in odd places.
It’s essentially created two versions of me. There is medicated me who is a competent adult and can Just Do Stuff and unmedicated me who is mot, and cannot (but who is fun and lovely and is the version writing this).
On the way up the transition between the two is smooth and continuous.
On the way down it is not. I can feel it starting to fade over above half and hour then it reaches some critical level and o spend 10-15 minutes just crashing.
And then I’m the person writing this again, but a bit dazed and bewildered.
I’m hoping this will get smoother. At the moment it leads to almost a discontinuity in personality, but only on the way down, where afterwards I simply cannot conceive of being the person I just was.
I think I need to get into the habit, before it wears off, of leaving myself something nice for just after the crash.
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You know the worst thing about today's ruling? It doesn't take into account the primal, overwhelming power of - and I'm going to use the old term - gender dysphoria.
Most cis folk haven't experienced it, though many cis queer peeps know what I mean from a different context. The compulsion to live free or die. I wouldn't be alive now if I hadn't transitioned.
The lucky ones transition before they get there but the rest of us hit a point in our lives where it's transition or die and that's not hyperbole. I always wanted to see a world where transition happened for all before that point, because I barely made it through. That hope is pretty much gone.
Call us mentally-ill if you like. I don't care. I live, or I don't. For the sake of preventing some vile people feeling a bit uncomfortable, you've put our lives in real danger, judges of the Supreme Court.
You're disgusting bigots and any remaining respect I once had for the law has gone. We're outlaws again.
Please boost this unless you don't give a shit.
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I had radiotherapy from someone who turned out to be a TERF.
That still gives me shivers sometimes.
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I chain drink decaff Twinnings Everyday, have deliveries of coffee beans from Decadent Decaff and for at the Hackspace keep decaf Nescafe Azure. That mostly keeps me ticking.
Not all the decaffs are equal. That took a few goes. Some brands put a bit more care into it than others. And if you're shopping at supermarkets, I've noticed you have to go to the larger ones to get access to more than one brand on the shelf.
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Filing under “fun realisations about ADHD”
We probably pretty much never make threads on r/AmITheAsshole
Because we already know.
I think there are healthy and unhealthy sources of dopamine, varied in degree and with who you are.
Heroin is mostly-bad but part-good, Reddit is all-bad.
Morning musing
Seeing so many in the US thinking the courts or the Senate are going to save them from Trump. My view? It's too late, you're in a dictatorship.
How do dictatorships end?
1. Death of the dictator, natural or otherwise
2. Military coup/civil war
3. Popular uprising
4. War loss and occupation
1 - the best bet, I think. You've killed several Presidents, go get him. Failing that, he's getting old
2 - I think it's unlikely. The US military are accustomed to seeing the President as their commander. I could be wrong. Secession is impossible without the local military on board
3 - it's an option but it's going to need a lot more people and it needs to move to general strike and even revolution
4 - not gonna happen, it's the US
Anyway, the courts and the Senate are worth pursuing but they're delaying tactics at best. You're looking at one of the above for freedom and I think you need to plan for that. I know it's daunting but it is what it is.
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Doesn't matter to me. I'm not on dot social, I'm not in the US and I'm never going to the US.
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Went out for dinner with Zoe’s parents. Shut down at the end as I tend to do.
Then had to walk back home through the city centre which was a riot of overstimulation and horrific. Just needed to get away so I walked really fast.
Every time I did this before I was like, “what the fuck is wrong with me? Why am I like this?” And I’d get angry with myself and that would often devolve into an argument.
But I now know exactly why I’m like this.
And it isn’t my fault.
And there was no argument.
Or do you?
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@@MyKomment While that Alaska Max had a door plug blow out, the 8200s don't have those, and that's the main door.
I think it's good. Safest place to be is right at the back but fuck that. I want my green chicken curry early.
Oh, news. Said on Bsky but not here.
I have combination inattentive/hyperactive ADHD, officially.
I'm going to be starting treatment.
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If you're able to, can I be a bother and ask some questions? Did you do right to choose and if so who did you go with?
I'm looking for recommendations since I had such a horrible time on the NHS, requested ICB funding for assessment outside local MH services.
Yeah it's a shit deal sometimes.
I went with NHS but am now on complaint#2. First assessment was with a yr 1 specialist GP in training, no supervisor, claimed I had the inattentive bits but no hyperactive so said it wasn't ADHD. Complained, got "second opinion" with consultant who said he thought I had ASD and refused to even discuss ADHD without school reports.
... Yup. I'm pretty sure a care plan shouldn't be "Akkikins will come back with school reports.
I refuse to see her until she produces school reports.
I've referred her for ASD assessment"
ASD questionnaires came back very unlikely to point not put on waiting list (AQ50 6/50, cambs behavioural empathy score of 69/80) so... Guess I was right? But refusal to assess me properly. Yay.
Anyway, also considering private.
Watched S03E01 of Amazon’s Wheel of Time thing.
Well, it was on while I played with my phone.
Problem with streaming series is they don’t have enough material to fill the seasons they’re given so instead of filler episodes we’re moving to entire filler seasons.
It’s just boring. It’s all boring.
And with years between seasons, nobody can remember what is actually supposed to be happening.
Let’s get back to TV where they get the fuck on with it.
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How do you have filler when you're adapting a 14-brick series?
(I watched S1 then was disinclined to renew my Prime subscription)
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Previous posts on ADHD and food/hunger generated a bit of confusion I think.
Let me see if I can explain. I'm currently making a cheese sandwich because the dishwasher needs emptying.
Does that make sense?
@Jo Dusepo جوهانا دوسپو Like doomscrolling. You know. When you’re bored? You need something to do?
We are always bored.
And housework is so boring it hurts.
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@Llwynog From the copy of this on Bsky:
Honestly, it’s just pervasive. Attitudes to snacking. The idea that unloading the dishwasher doesn’t have to be soul destroying. That listening to someone talking slowly doesn’t have to be enraging. That holding on to transient thoughts is possible. That you can stop the music. That you can just DO something even if it’s not urgent or interesting. That emotions aren’t zero or a million decibels. That hyperfocus isn’t a thing for them. That it’s not a constant fight against self loathing for not doing the thing. That they can just switch off. That telling someone that something that’s bothering them isn’t that important is actually supposed to help rather than annoy. That you don’t have to constantly seek approval that you’ll never get. That burnout doesn’t have to be a sword of Damocles.
And so on and so on.
@llwynog what, you mean people don't battle almost every day at work forcing themselves to do stuff and beating themselves up for all the stuff they didn't manage? That they're not expecting to be fired for all the work that didn't happen, and dreading the call that never comes?
Also in retrospective it shows that a lot of work isn't actually important bc no-one notices when you don't do it. Although I am very good at doing other things that get some attention so that helps.
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Why does all the personal funding require current enrollment in school? Why are all the internships only for students? Why do those certain jobs only hire recent graduates?
Age discrimination for exploitative employment of children under thirty
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"He’s a really great guy except for when he jokes about murdering me."
The cishets are NOT ok. reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpd…
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Yeah, the rest of the World isn't going to stop it. We're going to profit off it instead, 'the American Way', lol!
Destroy Gilead's economic power, we'll watch you do it and make money off your stupid mistake. Nobody is saving you but yourselves.
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in reply to Christine Burns MBE 🏳️⚧️📚⧖ • • •I *think* it's because, with very limited exceptions, doing that would constitute "impeaching or questioning proceedings in Parliament", which the courts are forbidden to do by article IX of the Bill of Rights 1689.
(For the avoidance of doubt, I'm not defending last week's ruling, which I think is both morally and technically wrong.)
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Unknown parent • • •Leigh Silvester
Unknown parent • • •From the same article, this more recent woman also demonstrates how biology confounds the unwary.
Sarah Gronert – German tennis player. She was born as intersex with both male and female genitalia.
Strange how some women attract online vitriol, whereas others don't get the same attention.
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in reply to Christine Burns MBE 🏳️⚧️📚⧖ • • •Which is not to say that there are not other flaws in the judgement. But as the rules stand judges can't go and do their own investigation, they rely on what is put before them and the legal materials deemed within judicial knowledge (which they can therefore look up).
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in reply to Christine Burns MBE 🏳️⚧️📚⧖ • • •leading English case on statutory interpretation
Contributors to Wikimedia projects (Wikimedia Foundation, Inc.)WellsiteGeo
Unknown parent • • •IIUC (and this is not defending the WESTMINSTER "Supreme" Court, or the judgement), the court deals with the law AS WRITTEN, not the Hansard palaver around it. THAT is for Parliament to consider if amending the law.
Which is the next step, after this "final" decision.
No, I did not specify "which" Parliament. That remains an open question.
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Unknown parent • • •Is anyone contemplating applying for a recall of the Court's judgment on the basis of a huge pile of "new" evidence?
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