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One thing that beats me about the Supreme Court's shenanigans is this. The Equality Act is just fifteen years old. I still have my copy of the massive 'Discrimination Law Review' report that constitutes the policy starting point for every aspect of it. The people who drafted it are still alive. Many of those who voted for it are still in Parliament. The extensive debates and committee meetings are all in Hansard. The Bill Managers can be interviewed. So why did the SC resort to 'guessing'..
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Is anyone contemplating applying for a recall of the Court's judgment on the basis of a huge pile of "new" evidence?

@Liaely

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One thing I did NOT expect from ADHD meds: much easier to put my contact lenses in.

I guess my eyes are no longer darting about all over the place.

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Cis or trans, if you have not yet written to your MP about the Supreme Court ruling please do so as soon as possible. Marches are one thing but MPs getting lots of emails from their constituents and having to answer awkward questions will have an even greater impact.
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for you sarah i will write to my garbage MP. although in echo of the above, she has never responded to any of my previous correspondence and in a mystery shopper exercise had the worst response rate of any mp in the liverpool city region (maria eagle).

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I truly do not believe this.

I just watched a video about somebody's parrot, or some similar birb. Said birb had been plucking it's feathers and the owner said it was a hormonal issue and the vet had given it Lupron.

Lupron is a puberty blocker. Parrots have more fucking rights than trans kids

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Possible, but IIUC plucking is usually a stress issue.

Still, the fact that it's easier to get for a parrot than a kid is quite something.



Elvanse LOWERING my BP

It’s supposedly at risk of doing the opposite.

How bloody stressed was I before?

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For about a year now every day after lunch when the second Medikinet dose kicks in, I get so sleepy that I have to sleep for 30min on our couch. Coping is stress and you get so used to it... 😩
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This is why my kid drinks coffee to help them sleep

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fucking lol if you think you can "eradicate autism" and still have computers

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Still not got a good answer to the question of how neurotypicals have fun.

Like, it has recently come to my attention that you lot get a dopamine reward for picking up your socks off the floor and putting them away. I have now experienced this and, wow! Yeah. Very cool! Neat trick you have there.

So why spend money on leisure activities when you can just pick shit up?

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The knack is learning how to *stop* doing tasks. I'm still learning, 3 years on Elvanse.


It’s really starting to hit me now. All those years I wasn’t lazy. I wasn’t deliberately obstructive. I wasn’t thoughtless. I wasn’t careless. I wasn’t a deliberate arsehole.

My neurology literally wouldn’t let me slow down, do stuff, talk quieter, not interrupt, not go from 0 to “temper tantrum” in 2 seconds, remember where I put the thing I was holding 1 second ago. Not want to end people for talking too slowly.

One pill fixes it all. One sodding pill.

51 years.

There’s more grieving to come here, I think. A lot more.

And no, everyone is NOT “a little bit ADHD”. You have no bloody idea.

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NEWS! Woman who believes vaccines cause autism also believes thing above her bed catches bad dreams newsthump.com/2025/04/18/woman…

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if it wasn’t so literally dead serious of a topic 😭😱😭😱😓


First few days on Elvanse and wow! This stuff is honestly astonishing.

If you’re seeing this on Bluesky it’s auto cross posted from fedi. Breaks might be in odd places.

It’s essentially created two versions of me. There is medicated me who is a competent adult and can Just Do Stuff and unmedicated me who is mot, and cannot (but who is fun and lovely and is the version writing this).

On the way up the transition between the two is smooth and continuous.

On the way down it is not. I can feel it starting to fade over above half and hour then it reaches some critical level and o spend 10-15 minutes just crashing.

And then I’m the person writing this again, but a bit dazed and bewildered.

I’m hoping this will get smoother. At the moment it leads to almost a discontinuity in personality, but only on the way down, where afterwards I simply cannot conceive of being the person I just was.

I think I need to get into the habit, before it wears off, of leaving myself something nice for just after the crash.

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Years ago, people would have described my aversion to small talk as "autistic". But this implies lacking the skills to make small talk. I avert it due to it requiring me to concentrate (on something that wastes time); it has nothing to do with an inability to schmooze, otherwise I would not have reached where I have in my nursing career. Understanding this, instead of lazily describing it as "autistic", has helped me gain a greater understanding of my life.

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You know the worst thing about today's ruling? It doesn't take into account the primal, overwhelming power of - and I'm going to use the old term - gender dysphoria.

Most cis folk haven't experienced it, though many cis queer peeps know what I mean from a different context. The compulsion to live free or die. I wouldn't be alive now if I hadn't transitioned.

The lucky ones transition before they get there but the rest of us hit a point in our lives where it's transition or die and that's not hyperbole. I always wanted to see a world where transition happened for all before that point, because I barely made it through. That hope is pretty much gone.

Call us mentally-ill if you like. I don't care. I live, or I don't. For the sake of preventing some vile people feeling a bit uncomfortable, you've put our lives in real danger, judges of the Supreme Court.

You're disgusting bigots and any remaining respect I once had for the law has gone. We're outlaws again.

Please boost this unless you don't give a shit.

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It disgusts me there are people who want to deny any comfort to a fellow human being.




I had radiotherapy from someone who turned out to be a TERF.

That still gives me shivers sometimes.


At work, in a hospital, treating a politician whose views I find odious, with a wire literally inside his heart. Thought for a second about how I could kill the prick and no-one would ever know, it would just be complications. Sometimes I still feel guilty that I didn't.

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Searching for hydrochloric acid on amazon.

It offers me sodium hypochlorite.

Fuck's actual sake

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I think you will find that shipping of HCl is problematic. I suggest you look for a local builder's supplier or DIY store (if there are any in your area).
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you can't even get the full strength stuff anymore. Unless you can find a shop still selling "professionals only" grade stuff. Bah!


Decaffeinated Yorkshire Tea is entirely satisfactory. This is a useful discovery.

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I chain drink decaff Twinnings Everyday, have deliveries of coffee beans from Decadent Decaff and for at the Hackspace keep decaf Nescafe Azure. That mostly keeps me ticking.

Not all the decaffs are equal. That took a few goes. Some brands put a bit more care into it than others. And if you're shopping at supermarkets, I've noticed you have to go to the larger ones to get access to more than one brand on the shelf.



Nice spring day here on TERF Island. Time to break out the hiking dress. Its pockets can fit two bottles of wine!


Filing under “fun realisations about ADHD”

We probably pretty much never make threads on r/AmITheAsshole

Because we already know.

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I think there are healthy and unhealthy sources of dopamine, varied in degree and with who you are.

Heroin is mostly-bad but part-good, Reddit is all-bad.



Just got a letter from local Lib Dem’s.

It was insipid as fuck

So I voted green

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I am voting Green more often. Hacked off with Labour, Hate everyone else.

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Morning musing

Seeing so many in the US thinking the courts or the Senate are going to save them from Trump. My view? It's too late, you're in a dictatorship.

How do dictatorships end?
1. Death of the dictator, natural or otherwise
2. Military coup/civil war
3. Popular uprising
4. War loss and occupation

1 - the best bet, I think. You've killed several Presidents, go get him. Failing that, he's getting old
2 - I think it's unlikely. The US military are accustomed to seeing the President as their commander. I could be wrong. Secession is impossible without the local military on board
3 - it's an option but it's going to need a lot more people and it needs to move to general strike and even revolution
4 - not gonna happen, it's the US

Anyway, the courts and the Senate are worth pursuing but they're delaying tactics at best. You're looking at one of the above for freedom and I think you need to plan for that. I know it's daunting but it is what it is.

#uspol

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I've mentioned point 1 in a tooth and that was reported and deleted. Be careful what you write. There are conservative Trump snitches here.
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Doesn't matter to me. I'm not on dot social, I'm not in the US and I'm never going to the US.



About to start my Elvanse titration.

No alcohol or caffeine for 3 months.

Oof!

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I am surprised they didn't start you on Methylphenidate first, as Elvanse is usually a second-line treatment. Do let us know how you're getting on with it. I'm using far fewer energy drinks than pre-treatment so I think it's working.
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@Llwynog Everyone I’ve seen get diagnosed in the uk recently has been started on Elvanse

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Gilead is not a serious country and the people of the World can see it, if Washington cannot.

#China #Tariffs #US #Eggs

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@Natasha_Jay The world (and eventually the USA) will be a better place if Europe, China, and the rest of our trading partners just get on with creating a world economy that leaves the USA on the sidelines.

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Went out for dinner with Zoe’s parents. Shut down at the end as I tend to do.

Then had to walk back home through the city centre which was a riot of overstimulation and horrific. Just needed to get away so I walked really fast.

Every time I did this before I was like, “what the fuck is wrong with me? Why am I like this?” And I’d get angry with myself and that would often devolve into an argument.

But I now know exactly why I’m like this.

And it isn’t my fault.

And there was no argument.

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That sounds like the best thing of your recent diagnosis, learning to accept you are what you are. I’ve never thought WHY I am like who I am, just that I am. And yes I relate to the shutting down…


May I present the glory that is seat 2A on a Ryanair 737-8200.

They only charge like 30 euros for this.

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You know that if the door structure fails, that seat will be the one that goes flying, dont you?
Or do you?
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@@MyKomment While that Alaska Max had a door plug blow out, the 8200s don't have those, and that's the main door.

I think it's good. Safest place to be is right at the back but fuck that. I want my green chicken curry early.



Oh, news. Said on Bsky but not here.

I have combination inattentive/hyperactive ADHD, officially.

I'm going to be starting treatment.

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Hope it helps.

If you're able to, can I be a bother and ask some questions? Did you do right to choose and if so who did you go with?

I'm looking for recommendations since I had such a horrible time on the NHS, requested ICB funding for assessment outside local MH services.

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@Heather 👻 I went private. ADHD360. I'm in two minds about them because I had a good experience but I know someone who had a very bad one.
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Yeah it's a shit deal sometimes.

I went with NHS but am now on complaint#2. First assessment was with a yr 1 specialist GP in training, no supervisor, claimed I had the inattentive bits but no hyperactive so said it wasn't ADHD. Complained, got "second opinion" with consultant who said he thought I had ASD and refused to even discuss ADHD without school reports.

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... Yup. I'm pretty sure a care plan shouldn't be "Akkikins will come back with school reports.
I refuse to see her until she produces school reports.
I've referred her for ASD assessment"
ASD questionnaires came back very unlikely to point not put on waiting list (AQ50 6/50, cambs behavioural empathy score of 69/80) so... Guess I was right? But refusal to assess me properly. Yay.

Anyway, also considering private.



Watched S03E01 of Amazon’s Wheel of Time thing.

Well, it was on while I played with my phone.

Problem with streaming series is they don’t have enough material to fill the seasons they’re given so instead of filler episodes we’re moving to entire filler seasons.

It’s just boring. It’s all boring.

And with years between seasons, nobody can remember what is actually supposed to be happening.

Let’s get back to TV where they get the fuck on with it.

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god I'm so confused with it. No idea what's happening. It's very pretty; the costumes are nice and the twinks are cute. This sums up the reasons I'm still watching.
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@anandamide It’s very simple. There are some acolytes and I’ve forgotten most of their names but they did some stuff and now they must go to this other city except, no, wait, they’re going to a slightly different city. Just meeting up with the baddie from the last season because we do coffee now. It’s a thing. Ooh, look at the one in red walking in an evil way! PSYCH! We’re actually going to a different city! Oh no, they stole the McGuffins of power!
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How do you have filler when you're adapting a 14-brick series?

(I watched S1 then was disinclined to renew my Prime subscription)



Imagine standing in that queue to have your photo taken against a wall while 8 trans women are watching, judging you.

We'd just been in the pub, by the way. Some of us use our time better.

It isn't even the location from the film. That's between platforms 4 and 5 because Rowling is a hack.

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I was always confused by the choice, given that platforms 9 and 10 were out in the shed to the side with two tracks between them (although it looks like they've renumbered 11 as 10 and there are only two tracks there now). First time I saw the 9 3/4 exhibit it didn't have a queue of people. I was mildly amused by it, even if it was in completely the wrong place.
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@David Hough They lost one of the platforms in the suburban station, yes. It went as part of the Thameslink Programme because the paths into suburban are the same ones needed to access the tunnel into the Thameslink core.
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@David Hough Railing’s stupid invention would have sort of worked had they re-numbered after opening platform 0 because then 9 and 10 (present 8 and 9) would have had what is now the floor under the Parcel Yard pub between them.
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@David Hough The lesson in all this is that if you’re gonna be a massive transphobe, you need to make damn sure the shit about trains in your books is watertight because WE WILL KNOW.
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Skip to the bit where they give them a trolley and they break their noses running at the wall


Yes. I’m drinking 22 year old Bordeaux in the bath. Yes, I’m comfortable with that.
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In my wine classes, I was taught that for drinking in the bath (usually a shared bath) a red sparkling wine is a good choice (my preference is a quality Lambrusco).


Previous posts on ADHD and food/hunger generated a bit of confusion I think.

Let me see if I can explain. I'm currently making a cheese sandwich because the dishwasher needs emptying.

Does that make sense?

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@Jo Dusepo جوهانا دوسپو Like doomscrolling. You know. When you’re bored? You need something to do?

We are always bored.

And housework is so boring it hurts.



The more I come to terms with the pervasiveness of the ADHD I’ve been in denial about for so long, the more it utterly blows my mind how *alien* the way neurotypicals see the world is.

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@Llwynog From the copy of this on Bsky:

Honestly, it’s just pervasive. Attitudes to snacking. The idea that unloading the dishwasher doesn’t have to be soul destroying. That listening to someone talking slowly doesn’t have to be enraging. That holding on to transient thoughts is possible. That you can stop the music. That you can just DO something even if it’s not urgent or interesting. That emotions aren’t zero or a million decibels. That hyperfocus isn’t a thing for them. That it’s not a constant fight against self loathing for not doing the thing. That they can just switch off. That telling someone that something that’s bothering them isn’t that important is actually supposed to help rather than annoy. That you don’t have to constantly seek approval that you’ll never get. That burnout doesn’t have to be a sword of Damocles.

And so on and so on.

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@llwynog what, you mean people don't battle almost every day at work forcing themselves to do stuff and beating themselves up for all the stuff they didn't manage? That they're not expecting to be fired for all the work that didn't happen, and dreading the call that never comes?

Also in retrospective it shows that a lot of work isn't actually important bc no-one notices when you don't do it. Although I am very good at doing other things that get some attention so that helps.



When you have a moment of clarity and realise that "Rockstar Programmer" means "This is someone with ADHD who we haven't burned out yet".
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I use Adderall–and it's definitely helpful for a lot of things–but it's not a silver bullet.
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Why does all the personal funding require current enrollment in school? Why are all the internships only for students? Why do those certain jobs only hire recent graduates?

Age discrimination for exploitative employment of children under thirty

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This happened within 10 minutes of a single espresso. Just before my mind was racing.

Anyway, less than 2 weeks until my ADHD diagnosis appointment.



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100% bet that original poster had childhood emotional neglect and/or serious self esteem issues so has no idea whats coming or going (at least from my personal experience of all that)


Are Gen X literally the only people who answer our fucking phones (including FaceTime) and our messages?

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gen-x here and terminal non-phone-answerer. phone is pretty much on permanent do-not-disturb.
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@Ghost of Hope 🏳️‍⚧️ I do if I’m trying to organise being picked up at the bloody airport and the person picking me up is calling.

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Watching the US self immolate and nobody will put out the fire.

Anything but tell a White Man to 'stop', isn't it? Their Constitution won't allow it!

#USPOL #Musk #ElonMusk #Trump

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Yeah, the rest of the World isn't going to stop it. We're going to profit off it instead, 'the American Way', lol!

Destroy Gilead's economic power, we'll watch you do it and make money off your stupid mistake. Nobody is saving you but yourselves.

#USPOL


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Severance: I want to love it, but I can't help thinking they're doing the Lost and BSG(2004) thing of "jerk the viewer around because we didn't actually think beyond the elevator pitch" thing.

Also, GET THE FUCK ON WITH IT



What’s with the weird-ass way they say 61016 on the Tube?
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similar on my trip today if I didn't know the number already, I'm not sure I would be able to pick it out - also on trains today, and the accent of the announcer on Northern means "see" and "say" sound exactly the same and it's oddly jarring.